new years regret

opan's avatar
opan

anyone else feel like this? i wish i could have done so many things differently. i tried to put in effort to make myself feel like less of a loser, but now i just feel even more useless. i spent most of this year trying to improve myself, that i didnt even focus on trying to enjoy it. i feel horrible. the years nearly over and i really hope i can do something differently next year.

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PatrickSubaru's avatar
PatrickSubaru

I was enjoying this year till august. (last 2 weeks of june were horrible tho) I'd say I've improved A LOT this year, but I still made a lot of mistakes and I'll try to fix them next year.

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    Jokerpersona's avatar
    Jokerpersona

    Nah I think ive done decent this year. Could always do better tho

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      kobefadeaway1658's avatar
      kobefadeaway1658

      its okay baby im always here for you

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        eIlie's avatar
        eIlie

        real.

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          Schlorp's avatar
          Schlorp

          My biggest regret is not beginning what I really wanted to do and just postponing it for doom scrolling

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            eepybuni's avatar
            eepybuni

            goodluck man

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              AssMilk's avatar
              AssMilk

              This months Subway little Sub winner is, opan, who has taken his 1000th footlong. Opan was nominated by his mother and says his favorite footlong that he likes to slide down his throat is the Italian BMT. Congratulations, opan. Your prize is a $5 voucher that can be spent at any nation wide store

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                Schnoz

                Sometimes we lose ourselves in the pursuit of improvement. I think this is one of the biggest problems with not only self improvement culture, but modern capitalist life in general. “Too attract Butterflies, one needs to cultivate a pretty garden first” is a nice metaphor. However, is this truly what you have in mind for yourself? Instead of living freely, you chase after set goals, never being happy with what you have, for there is always something further along the path. Honestly, I think your sentiment is shared by a lot of people. I usually get sad in my birthday as well, thinking I somehow wasted my year or whatever. My friends and family make up for it, reminding me that it might not all be worthless. What I’m trying to say is; enjoy new years, get hella drunk and don’t be too harsh on yourself :)

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                  BBGF's avatar
                  BBGF

                  I feel like this every new year.

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